<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:31:41 GMT--><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:rss="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:cc="http://web.resource.org/cc/"><rss:channel rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/"><rss:title>Perfect Pairings</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/</rss:link><rss:description></rss:description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><dc:date>2010-02-09T05:31:41Z</dc:date><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://www.squarespace.com/">Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</admin:generatorAgent><rss:items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/12/15/a-good-book-plusgift-suggestions.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/10/26/books-that-shiver-and-suck.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/9/14/caroles-fall-book-club-picks.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/6/21/from-sully-by-the-sea.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/4/28/a-few-words-from-clare-about-soap.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/2/9/literary-love-stories.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/11/25/what-happened-to-thanksgiving.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/16/change-for-the-better.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/12/blog-update-coming-soon.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/4/3/march-madness.html"/></rdf:Seq></rss:items></rss:channel><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/12/15/a-good-book-plusgift-suggestions.html"><rss:title>A Good Book Plus...Gift Suggestions</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/12/15/a-good-book-plusgift-suggestions.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-12-15T16:36:52Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My suggestions for books as gifts will appeal to the person on your list who has everything, wants nothing, but expects something.</p>
<p><strong>1. &ldquo;Is This Bottle Corked? The Secret Life of Wine&rdquo; by Kathleen Burk and Michael Bywater</strong></p>
<p>I was hoping this book came with free samples. This would be a great gift for the wine lover or the <span style="color: #262626;">oenophile</span> in your family (or just your aunt who&rsquo;s the lush). You could always wrap this with a nice bottle of wine and a cute corkscrew (you know the kind that come in different shapes and sizes). This would be my favorite gift: wine and a book!</p>
<p><strong>2. &ldquo;The Captain Frederick Pabst Mansion&rdquo; by John Eastberg (available at </strong><a href="http://pabstmansion.com/giftshop/">http://pabstmansion.com/giftshop/)</a></p>
<p>This is an elegant and beautifully produced coffee table book about the history and the collections in the Pabst Mansion in Milwaukee. A wonderful treat for the history lover in your family and it would be a great gift to pair with a tour of the mansion itself.</p>
<p><strong>3. &ldquo;</strong><strong>American Rebel: The Life of Clint Eastwood&rdquo; by Marc Eliot</strong><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>This entertaining biography of one of the most &ldquo;enduring actors of our generation&rdquo; will appeal to anyone interested in Eastwood or in movies in general. One of the more interesting sections traces how Eastwood transition from actor to director. You could give this book along with one of Eastwood's movies.</p>
<p><strong>4.</strong> <strong>&rdquo;Talking About Detective Fiction&rdquo; by P.D. James </strong></p>
<p>P.D. James is one of the most gifted and famous writers of the detective novel and this lovely little book would be a perfect gift for any mystery lover on your list. In a charming chatty but also really smart way she examines the history of the genre and explores some of the writers who influenced her own work. It&rsquo;d be fun to give someone this book and also pair it with one or two of the classic mysteries that she writes about so well.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>5. &ldquo;Odd and the Frost Giants&rdquo; by Neil Gaiman</strong></p>
<p>This is my family&rsquo;s Christmas read aloud book for this year. It would also be a perfect stocking-stuffer book for a reluctant young reader (6-10) in your family. Gaiman is the author of <em>Coraline</em> and <em>The Graveyard Book</em> (both terrific reads too).</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>﻿</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/10/26/books-that-shiver-and-suck.html"><rss:title>Books that Shiver and Suck</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/10/26/books-that-shiver-and-suck.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-10-26T20:20:24Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On my last visit to WTMJ 4's The Morning Blend I picked the following reads in honor of the Halloween season. Since I'd picked Anne Rice's <em>The Witching Hour</em>, one of the creepiest books I've ever loved, last year, it's not on my list this time, and neither is Jennifer Egan's <em>The Keep</em>, which I also love. But if you haven't read either one of these novels ... what are you waiting for?</p>
<p>This year, I decided to go with a few classics of the gothic and horror genres, and one quite distubing debut (in a really good way). If you have a minute, share your scariest reads with me (your recent 401K statement doesn't count).</p>
<p><strong><em>Salem&rsquo;s Lot</em> by Stephen King</strong> <strong>and <em>Interview With A Vampire</em> by Anne Rice</strong><br /><br />If you&rsquo;re loving the resurgence of vampires in current popular culture as I am (Twilight, True Blood, The Vampire Diaries), you owe it to yourself to read (or re-read) the mother and father of the modern reincarnation of the vampire. Both <em>Interview</em> and <em>Salem&rsquo;s Lot</em> are brilliant in their ability to make us believe vampires linger among us and, particularly, in Rice&rsquo;s novel, to feel some empathy for them. Rice&rsquo;s book is lush and lusty and lascivious (kinda dirty) in its bloody detail (and way better than the film adaptation). King&rsquo;s book is just in-your-face terrifying. Years ago when I first read <em>SL</em>, I made my husband close every drape and blind in the house so in a weak moment I wouldn't be tempted to invite a vampire into the house.</p>
<p><strong>Peter Straub's Ghost Story</strong><br /><br />&ldquo;What&rsquo;s the worst thing you&rsquo;ve ever done?&rdquo;</p>
<p>From this great opening line through to the story&rsquo;s end, this book haunts you. Straub is originally from Milwaukee (many of his books are set in a fictional city of Millhaven, which is his substitute for my fair city). I first read <em>Ghost Story</em> when it came out&ndash;right as my daughter turned two&ndash;as if that wasn&rsquo;t scary enough. It&rsquo;s a book that demands re-reading because the ghostly questions it raises are open to alternative possibilities as solutions. In their youth, five men accidentally kill a woman. Fifty years later when one of them dies of fright, they realize her ghost is looking for revenge. Why has she waited so long to come after them? And what can they do to stop themselves being scared to death?</p>
<p><strong>The Gargoyle by Andrew Davidson</strong><br /><br />One reviewer described this dark debut novel as &ldquo;the mad spawn of Stephen King and Anne Rice.&rdquo; What more can I say? After the narrator is left horribly scarred from a terrible car accident (the result of his drinking and drug abuse) in a hospital burn unit, a mysterious woman comes into his life insisting they were lovers in medieval Germany. The woman is a sculptress of grotesque things like gargoyles and she seduces the narrator into her&ndash;well, is it madness or not? You decide.&nbsp;&nbsp; <br /><br /><br /></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/9/14/caroles-fall-book-club-picks.html"><rss:title>Carole's Fall Book Club Picks</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/9/14/caroles-fall-book-club-picks.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-09-14T14:57:42Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a book club book must do the following things (with or without a glass of wine &hellip; or two). <br /><br />1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Stimulate interesting conversation among everyone in the club. To do this it helps if a book stirs some extremes in us (passion, pleasure, anger, sadness, empathy whatever) <br />2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Offer some insight into a aspect of life (or the world) most of the club may not know much about <br />3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Must be a fast and enduring read (one that you keeps you chatting about it as you head to your cars&ndash;or cabs, of course, if you had that second glass of wine)<br />4.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;It shouldn&rsquo;t feel like homework</p>
<p>Read on for my choice picks for a book club this fall. Post a comment if you want to *chat* about my choices or anything worthy that you're reading.<br /><br /><strong><em>Hot House Flower and the 9 Plants of Desire</em> by Margot Berwin</strong><br /><br />First of all, any novel with a title as sexy as this one is worth a read, and this one lives up to the heat in its title. Plus even though the sum total of my knowledge and interest in plants could fit in a Dixie cup, I was so enthralled by this book that about halfway into it I found myself Googling the plants and flowers in the story (sooo not me). Lila, the main character, works in advertising, which everyone thinks is glamorous, but her life is not. Her journey into the world of plants and love and adventure starts with a Bird of Paradise and the nine plants of desire (they are real plants-I googled them, remember) that are hidden in a secret room in a New York Laundromat. If you know something about tropical plants and their habitats, you&rsquo;ll really love this book, and if you don&rsquo;t you&rsquo;ll learn everything you&rsquo;ll ever need to know about their myths and their magic. <br /><br /><strong><em>Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet</em> by Jamie Ford</strong><br /><br />In the 1980s a hotel in Seattle was being renovated when the owners uncovered possessions belonging to Japanese Americans forced into internment camps during WWII. These possessions had gone unclaimed for decades. The author, Ford, puts this real historical event at the heart of this really lovely love story. Henry, a retired widower, spots a parasol amongst the abandoned possessions and it carries him back to his childhood and his first love, a Japanese American girl. The story shifts from Henry&rsquo;s childhood and America in the 1940s to Henry in the late 1980s as he uses the possessions to discover what happened to his first love and her family. The novel will give you lots to talk about, including the nature of patriotism then and now, but after I finished it I couldn&rsquo;t help thinking about what would be the one possession in my life that, like the parasol in the story, might trigger such bittersweet memories of love and loss and family. Mu husband, Kevin, is seriously considering this to use in one of his classes at Alverno.<br /><br /><br /><strong><em>Hurry Down Sunshine: A Father&rsquo;s Story of Love and Madness</em> by Michael Greenberg<br /></strong><br />This is a heart-breaking and gut-wrenching memoir (so my one non-fiction pick this month). It&rsquo;s about the summer the author&rsquo;s fifteen year old daughter, Sally, &ldquo;was struck mad." I read this in one sitting (you could too&ndash;trust me) and I had to call my college-age children immediately when I finished. The author approaches metal illness and its effects on a family without any sugar-coating, but he writes so lyrically and with such compassion I think any book club would find lots to talk about from this book. <br /><br /><strong><em>Home Repair</em> by Liz Rosenberg </strong><br /><br />During a garage sale Eve&rsquo;s second husband, Chuck, literally chucks their marriage out the window when, during a garage sale, he walks out on her. Eve so didn&rsquo;t see it coming, and now she has to deal with two teenage children and a house and heart in disrepair. This novel is full of men and women and children a lot like us, and it&rsquo;s a novel full of big and little surprises. If your book club has enjoyed Anne Tyler, Elizabeth Berg or Anita Shreve's novels, I think you&rsquo;ll really enjoy this book too.<br /><br />Cheers,<br />Carole<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />&nbsp;<br /></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/6/21/from-sully-by-the-sea.html"><rss:title>From Sully by the sea</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/6/21/from-sully-by-the-sea.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-06-21T09:10:12Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm writing this with a view of the beautiful Welsh coastline and the sea in front of me. Sun is shining and it's not too windy. A few windsurfers dot the horizon, a couple of fishing boats, and every now and then a ship passes on its way out through the channel.&nbsp;</p>
<p>First, thanks to all of you who sent me emails and good wishes after the Torchsong convention. They were all very sweet and much appreciated. There were just so many that I couldn't get to them before I left for the UK to work with John on a few projects. But I read them all. I also appreciated the pics that a few of you sent too. Thank you.</p>
<p>So second, an ankle update. John's ankle is healing well. He's been going to regular therapy and by the end of the week his leg was released from its full 'David Beckham' boot. He's now wearing one that looks a bit like small shin guards&ndash;a mini Beck. He has to limit his side-ways movements with his ankle so dancing the slosh with my mum and dad is out for awhile. He should, however, be able to get back to full shopping speed today. I think we're heading to Costco to make up for lost time.</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>Carole</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/4/28/a-few-words-from-clare-about-soap.html"><rss:title>A Few Words from Clare about Soap</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/4/28/a-few-words-from-clare-about-soap.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-04-28T00:40:36Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my U.S. Environmental History course this term, I was assigned to read "The World Without Us" by Alan Weisman (which I highly recommend). It exposed a scary truth about human invention; human beings have actually created something that will remain intact in the environment for an indefinite amount of time. The book explains that every single piece of plastic that has been created in the last fifty years, since its invention, still remains in the environment. Furthermore, there is no sign that any plastic will actually biodegrade, even after it has been reduced to small fragments. We use plastics everyday: in bags, bottles, containers, wrappers, and numerous other things. Plastics have become a fundamental material for modern life. However, I'd like to suggest is an easy and simple way to do a little to reduce your impact on the environment. Think about soap! Alan Weisman has forever changed the way I will shop for soap, and I hope I can convince you to change too. Next time you go to the store to buy body soap, read the bottle. If it doesn't say "100% natural exfolients", stop! Read the ingredients. If you see the word 'polyethylene' anywhere, do NOT buy it. This means that the exfoliating granuals in the soap are made of plastic. Yes, plastic. A scientist interviewed by Alan Weisman explains this best: "They're selling plastic meant to go right down the drain, into the sewers, into the rivers, right into the ocean. Bite-size pieces of plastic to be swallowed by little sea creatures" (147). There is no need to use soap that hurts our environment when there are alternatives that do not. It may seem small and insubstantial, but remember, those tiny bits of plastic will not ever wash away. So next time, think before you scrub!</p>
<p>Clare</p>
<p>4/09</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/2/9/literary-love-stories.html"><rss:title>Literary Love Stories</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2009/2/9/literary-love-stories.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-02-09T18:34:35Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My choices for my favorite literary love stories are romantic novels that are alternatives to what I call the heaving bosoms and bulging biceps books. Romantic fiction can be good literature, but romance novels ot that variety rarely are. Romance novels (Barbara Cartland etc.) are like French fries or&ndash; in the spirit of Valentine&rsquo;s Day&ndash; a generic chocolate heart that can fill the spot but doesn't last; whereas, romantic novels explore the complexities of relationships and the challenges and consequences of following your heart&ndash; so my literary love stories would be Godiva chocs or Lindts truffles&hellip;mmm!<br /><br />1.&ldquo;Birdsong: A Novel of Love and War&rdquo; by Sebastian Faulks <br /><br />Many classic love stories in literature are about infidelity and the consequences of falling in love with the &lsquo;forbidden.&rsquo; For example, <em>Madame Bovary</em> and <em>Anna Karenina</em>. This is a contemporary novel in that category. It&rsquo;s about a soldier in WWI in France who falls in love with the wife of a wealthy industrialist. She&rsquo;s in a passionless marriage and he&rsquo;s, well, he&rsquo;s twenty&hellip;. her husband and the war are big obstacles to their relationship. Faulks is a really eloquent writer and a terrific storyteller . . . and let's face it if I want to have a fanatsy love affair it might as well be with a twenty year old.<br /><br />2.&ldquo;I Capture The Castle&rdquo; by Dodie Smith (a great pick for mother/daughter book clubs)<br /><br />If you love the kind of romantic stories that Jane Austen wrote (<em>Pride and Prejudice</em> and <em>Emma </em>are my favorites), you&rsquo;ll adore this book. The novel was first published in 1948 and it was like <em>Twilight</em> to my generation. I read it when I was a teenager, re-read it with my daughter when she was about 14 (it&rsquo;s one of her favorite books too), and I ended up re-reading it last week when I picked it up planning just to skim it for this blog. JK Rowling has even said that the main character, Cassandra, &ldquo;is one of the most charismatic narrators&rdquo; ever in literature. <br /><br />Cassandra, a budding writer and full-blown romantic, lives in a decaying castle in England with her father (a famous writer suffering from severe writer&rsquo;s block), her sister, Rose (cynical and an anti-romantic), her younger brother, and her father&rsquo;s lover who was once a famous model in London. When a family with eligible males moves into the neighboring estate, love blooms. The novel ends with &ldquo;I love you! I love you! I love you!&rdquo; What&rsquo;s not to like?<br /><br />3. &ldquo;Of Love and Shadows&rdquo; by Isabel Allende<br /><br />Incredibly romantic love story set in mid-twentieth century in a Latin American dictatorship (it&rsquo;s really Chile) against a backdrop of political repression. Allende writes sagas that are deeply passionate and sweeping and complex. This is a love story about the daughter of a wealthy family who falls in love with a photographer and journalist. They uncover a mass grave and as they try to discover who&rsquo;s responsible, their love grows in the &ldquo;shadows&rdquo; of political repression. My students love this novel when I assign it. It has a heart and a strong social conscience.<br /><br />4. &ldquo;Affinity&rdquo; by Sarah Waters<br /><br />Sarah Waters has won a number of prestigious literary awards in the UK. Her main characters generally play on the &lsquo;girls team&rsquo; when it comes to romance and matters of the heart. This novel is one of a trilogy set in Victorian England and it&rsquo;s engaging and thoroughly researched about what it was like for women in the 19th century who have been &ldquo;put away&rdquo; because they think or act differently. It&rsquo;s the story of the developing relationship between two women, one an upper class woman who volunteers at a women&rsquo;s prison, and the other woman is one of the prisoners who is a spiritualist. Waters is an engaging writer. <br /><br />5. &ldquo;High Fidelity&rdquo; by Nick Hornby<br /><br />Rob Fleming takes his girlfriend for granted. She walks off with another man, leaving Rob to struggle with happened. He&rsquo;s a list addict (top five best songs for a first date etc.) so he makes a list of the women who&rsquo;ve dumped him and decides to learn from his past mistakes and try to win the love of his life back. The book was made into a movie with John Cusack and Jack Black, but the novel is deeper and richer in its understanding of the nature of modern love. It's also set in the UK not Chicago as the film is. This novel is witty and romantic without being mushy.</p>
<p>Hope you enjoy these literary love stories. Have a wonderful Valentine's Day.</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>Carole</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/11/25/what-happened-to-thanksgiving.html"><rss:title>What happened to Thanksgiving?</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/11/25/what-happened-to-thanksgiving.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-25T17:32:05Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&rsquo;m in trouble. I believe I&rsquo;ve lost time. I went to bed on Halloween and when I woke up November 1st, it was already Christmas. Everywhere I turned witches, bats, ghosts and goblins had morphed into Santas, snowmen, twinkling lights and tinsel.</p>
<p><br />What happened to Thanksgiving?</p>
<p><br />Did I pull a Robert Louis Stevenson and miss the entire month of November? I&rsquo;ve always thought that traveling in a time machine would be pretty cool, but I&rsquo;d hoped that when I did I&rsquo;d wake up with fewer wrinkles, lots more money, and a pair of perkier &ndash; well, you get my point. What I didn&rsquo;t want to happen was to skip directly from scavenging the good candy from the bottom of the Halloween bowl to facing cranky shoppers and more credit card debt.</p>
<p><br />It&rsquo;s a mystery to me where Thanksgiving has gone. I know it used to be the holiday directly before Christmas and I know that to many Thanksgiving was simply a full day of rest before the mad rush to Toys R Us or Mayfair Mall, but to me Thanksgiving was the holiday that defined what it meant to be an American. I loved everything about Thanksgiving, with the exception of pumpkin pie. In my opinion, the pumpkin as a dessert has got to be the most overrated culinary con since Rachel Ray. A pumpkin can be a ride to the ball or a scary lantern, but it is not a sweet treat at the end of one of the best meals of the year.</p>
<p><br />Growing up in Scotland, Thanksgiving didn&rsquo;t exist as a national holiday. Why would it? When the Pilgrims packed their stuffing recipes with their Puritan ideals and set sail, we British said &ldquo;cheerio and behave yourselves.&rdquo; &nbsp;<br />In Scotland, we do have all the other biggies, though. We have Valentine&rsquo;s Day, Easter, Bank holidays, our own versions of Memorial and Labor Days, and, of course, Christmas, which begins in December and encompasses a few of weeks of frenzied family gatherings, parties and pantomimes, all culminating in the biggest celebration of the season, New Year&rsquo;s Eve, or Hogmanay as it&rsquo;s called.&nbsp; In some parts of Scotland, Hogmanay celebrations can make Mardi Gras blush.</p>
<p><br />Consequently, when my family immigrated to America in 1976, we embraced all things American. Our first Thanksgiving was our chance to celebrate a holiday that only Americans celebrated.&nbsp; To us Thanksgiving was a quintessentially American tradition, borne out of the nation&rsquo;s peculiar past, albeit a messy and not nearly as romantic as we&rsquo;d like to remember past, but unique nonetheless.&nbsp; My family wanted to embrace all of it, families and friends gathering to celebrate nothing more than each other, rejoicing that all have survived another year, no matter how battered or brilliant, no matter how tremendous or trying. At Thanksgiving none of that mattered.</p>
<p><br />In those first few years when we seemed so far from home, Thanksgiving gave us a chance to think about all the reasons we&rsquo;d come to America in the first place. It seemed to me then as an outsider and it still does now after thirty years that Thanksgiving is the one holiday that we all truly share. No matter where we live, what we look like, or what we believe, on Thanksgiving we all share a meal together. Thanksgiving gives us all permission to pause and nourish ourselves.</p>
<p><br />So I&rsquo;m troubled about what has happened to Thanksgiving, and I really hope we can find it again. Until then I have to tell you I will not be dragged into the department store holiday sales, I refuse to recognize the presence of decorations, and I certainly will not listen to radio stations prematurely pandering the season.</p>
<p>During December, I&rsquo;ll give and receive with the best of them, but not right now. It&rsquo;s not that time yet.</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>Carole</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/16/change-for-the-better.html"><rss:title>Change for the Better</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/16/change-for-the-better.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-09-16T19:33:57Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block"><span><img  src="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/storage/CIMG1702.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1221594453572"></span></span></p>This November I'll be able to vote in my first Presidential election, and I'm thrilled to see that the election is drawing more people my age into the political process because this means that politicians will have to pay attention to the needs and concerns of the under 25 crowd. <br><br>Through such resources as MTV and MySpace, young people have easier opportunities to get informed.&nbsp; Almost all the candidates have ideas for specific programs that will help the young people of America.&nbsp; A recent poll on MTV asked who young people thought worked hardest to get the support of young voters.&nbsp; The poll showed Barack Obama on top.&nbsp; This is not too surprising considering he has programs in mind to help young people (affordable health care, increasing the funding for college) and stances on major issues that young people can understand and support.&nbsp; <br><br>Yet, despite this, not even half of my peers caucused in Minnesota last winter plan to vote in the Presidential Election.&nbsp; Why do so many young people still choose not to vote?&nbsp; For me, it was never a question of if I wanted to vote.&nbsp; In my mind voting is an obligation as an intelligent and functioning member of a democratic society.&nbsp; <br><br>I decided to find out from my peers why they were not voting.&nbsp; Overwhelmingly, there were only two answers:&nbsp; “I don’t do politics!” or “It’s not like one vote makes that big of a difference anyways…” <br><br>These responses can be easily refuted.&nbsp; A person living in a democracy does politics every single day when you write a copay at the doctor's office or return your library book and no one cares what you were reading.&nbsp; And if the 2000 election taught us anything, it taught us that every single vote makes a big difference. &nbsp;<br><br>Despite every celebrity who “rocks the vote” and every politician who works to convince young people that their “vote really does count!” it’s not convincing everyone.&nbsp; Something needs to be done to convince my peers that voting is important, worthwhile, and, yes, I'll say it, exhilarating. &nbsp;<br><br>I think politicians like Barack Obama are a step in the right direction.&nbsp; Young people can relate to an Oprah-adored, 40 something, racially diverse man much easier than they can relate to a 70 something, white man who is just more of the same nonsense that has been plaguing our country for the past eight years.&nbsp; It also helps when candidates, like Barack Obama, have specific plans that will directly affect the young. &nbsp;<br><br>I don’t have a better answer as to what can be done to convince every young voter to go out and vote.&nbsp; However, I do know that the future is going to be scary if large groups of us who are that future refuse to "do politics", don’t think their vote counts, and don’t even bother to get informed on issues.&nbsp; Ignorance is not okay and being apathetic does not make the problems go away. <br><br>All I know, is that for my part, I'll keep harassing my peers and try to persuade them to vote because this is our chance to let our voices be heard and to create change for the better. <br><br>Clare Barrowman Casey<br>September 2008<br><br><br>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/12/blog-update-coming-soon.html"><rss:title>Blog update coming soon</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/9/12/blog-update-coming-soon.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-09-12T21:46:07Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<br>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/4/3/march-madness.html"><rss:title>March Madness</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.carolebarrowman.com/carole/2008/4/3/march-madness.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Carole E. Barrowman</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-04-03T01:43:29Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-left"><span class="full-image-float-left"><img src="http://www.carolebarrowman.com/storage/IMG_1923_1.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1207192410444" alt="IMG_1923_1.JPG" /></span><br /></span>&nbsp;</p>March is a crazy month in the Barrowman Casey family. First, we have birthdays: my husband, my brother, and one of my nephews have birthdays within a week of each other. John&rsquo;s is first. Actually, Andrew, my middle brother&rsquo;s birthday is the first of the siblings. His is February. John&rsquo;s is March. Mine is April. I&rsquo;d like to say that my parents like order, but I think it&rsquo;s really that they like to have sex (ew! can you say that about your parents?). Between the birthdays, we have St. Patrick&rsquo;s Day, which, having married a Casey, is a day for me to eat an American version of Irish soda bread and wear more green than I usually do. Then it&rsquo;s midterms at my college and the pile o'papers and projects I have to read increases dramatically &ndash; I know. I know. If I didn&rsquo;t assign so much I wouldn&rsquo;t have to read so much, but where&rsquo;s the fun in that? After midterms, we had our Spring/Easter break, and this year we got more frickin&rsquo; snow. Stop it already!<br /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Clare came home from university for her spring break and we watched some trashy TV, some movies, and shopped. We saw  <em>Horton Hears a Who</em> in the theatre. Loved it. Watched  <em>Enchanted</em> on DVD. Loved it even more. I think Clare has now seen <em>Enchanted </em>223 times. Clare may know the starting line ups of the Green Bay Packers and the Minnesota Twins, but she also knows the dialogue to every Disney movie with a princess in it (she bleeds glitter). Plus she loves &lsquo;McDreamy.&rsquo; </p><p>Over the Easter weekend John was in Toronto filming the early rounds of Canada&rsquo;s version of &lsquo;How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria,&rsquo; which will run sometime in June and July (maybe if you&rsquo;re from Canada and reading this you can let me know when). We all didn&rsquo;t want John spending his Easter by himself so Clare flew to Toronto to hang with him for the weekend. When the two of them get together, it&rsquo;s a bit like the outrageous older brother and his rowdy little sister so I&rsquo;m pretty sure they were quite a few silly antics in the Toronto hotel (things I never hear about in any detail until months after the fact). At least they were both allowed out of the country. John slept most of the way home in the plane. Clare crashed when she got back to her apartment. <br /><br />For the last couple of weeks, I&rsquo;ve been working with John on his concert programme. For those of you who are lucky enough to have tickets &ndash; wow, what a night you&rsquo;re going to have. My parents will be with him for the entire tour. Say 'hello' if you see them.</p><p>All for now. I have to go read papers.<br /><br />Cheers,</p><p>Carole<br /></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item></rdf:RDF>